Diagnosis

The day after Henry's first birthday, you and I took him to Dr. Snyder's office for his one year check-up. That morning, when I was getting him dressed, I noticed a small rash on his body. It's called petechiae,  like lots and lots of tiny bruises. I knew this was bad.
 
When we went to see Dr. Snyder, he was really concerned. Henry was pale, lethargic, had patechiae, and his belly was big. He sent us straight to the lab to get some blood drawn. Dad met us there. After Henry's labs were drawn, we went home. We put Henry down for a nap. You were still awake when Dr. Snyder called. Over the phone, he told me that Henry had leukemia, and that we needed to go straight to the hospital. I fell to the ground crying. You brought over a toy, gave it to me and told me that it would be OK. You gave me a hug. You were amazing through this entire journey, starting at the very beginning.
 
Bob-Bob came over to watch you, while dad and I took Henry to the hospital. He went into the intensive care unit, where they tried to fix his blood. His white blood cells were over 301,000 (normal is 10,000). His Hemoglobin and Hematocrit were 2.4 and 5, very very low.  They didn't know if he would survive the night. Henry had a breathing tube placed and they started plasmaphoresis, a process to get ride of the extra white blood cells.
 
The next day, we were told that Henry had a rare form of leukemia called infant leukemia. He had a 50/50 chance of surviving. Less than 50 kids a year are diagnosed with infant leukemia. We were told that for the next two years, we would be in the hospital a lot. They told us that we would need to make the hospital a fun place for you and Henry.
 
This is Henry in the ICU.
 
 A tube in his nose to help feed him. Also a big IV out of his shoulder to help give him medicine.

 We took you to the hospital to see Henry as soon as we could. He had to wear a mask when we was out of the hospital room. You were happy to ride in the wagons, and even found where they hid the flashlights.
 We tried our best to keep Henry happy.


 He started steroids, and he loved to eat! His cheeks got so puffy!
 Do you remember his pink rattle? He was teething during the first few months we were in the hospital, so they found this toy for him... he carried it everywhere with him. And look at that crazy hair!
We quickly found a routine. Dad and I would switch nights staying in the hospital or staying with you. We brought you to the hospital almost everyday to see Henry and to spend family time together. You would run in the halls and laugh with the nurses. We would eat picnic dinners or lunches in our room. We understood how important it was to be together.

First Birthday

On Henry's first birthday, we went to Munchkin Playland. You both loved it there. We also went to see Henry's surgeon, she told us that Henry's mouth would need another surgery, but that it would be in a year.
 


 We spent some time at Robert and Michelle's house. You boys loved to wear Paige and Presley's wings.
 and princess crowns...
For dinner, we went to the Spaghetti Factory with both sets of grandparents. We thought the first year of Henry's life was tough... but we didn't know what was about to happen.

January

After Henry's palate surgery, he had to wear "no-nos" to keep his arms straight so he couldn't touch his mouth. He hated them... but you loved to wear them. You thought they were funny. And Henry thought it was funny when you wore them too.
 
You two played together a lot.

 He was so happy.